You'd have to be one of the tallest of the pack.
For u16s it honestly depends on the rest of the pack size, if you've got a fairly tall pack 6ft- 6ft 3 would be good for u16s If you havnt got a tall pack someone who's got a similar height to the other lock
At the pro level, I'd say 6ft 5 minimum, but at school boy level it doesn't really matter so long as you're not too short
theres not necessarily a certain size. You just need the other lock to be roughly the same size, and you just have to push.