I want to change rugby clubs to play with my mates but my parents keep yelling at me that im just quitting because the club i am at is too tough and im taking the soft option. ... the other thing is if i join the club my mates are at, i can play in an u/21's comp instead of an open age comp which is appealing to me because im only about 75kgs and would like to wait a year before playing footy with the big fellas. Im 20 years old btw.I want to change rugby clubs to play with my mates but my parents keep yelling at me that im just quitting because the club i am at is too tough and im taking the soft option. ... the other thing is if i join the club my mates are at, i can play in an u/21's comp instead of an open age comp which is appealing to me because im only about 75kgs and would like to wait a year before playing footy with the big fellas. Im 20 years old btw.

Playing rugby is about all about enjoying yourself unless you are one of the few who are good enough to go professional. If you feel that you would enjoy the game more in an u/21 comp and with your mates then that is the choice I'd make.

If your 20 then your an adult so its your choice and 75kgs is not small i am small I am 54kgs and play high school girls grades 9-12 so age 14-18 I just turned 15 so I play with people way bigger then my so you are kinda being wimpy

Try asking your mates to move to yours or say that you want to move to be with friends and a competition where you are of equal age and possibly strength... Say if i stay for like one more month and still dont wanna be there can you move,,, and your 20 you can make decisions for yourself anyway

Change to AFL. nuff said.