So today was rugby tryouts, and I had an emergency boxing meeting so I went there instead. There were two tryouts in rugby but the first one was just for fun. I hate myself for not going to the one today which is the real one. What can I do? Is there anything? If not, how do I get over this?So today was rugby tryouts, and I had an emergency boxing meeting so I went there instead. There were two tryouts in rugby but the first one was just for fun. I hate myself for not going to the one today which is the real one. What can I do? Is there anything? If not, how do I get over this?

If you keep on dwelling on negative thoughts then it will just bring you down further, take this as a lesson and learn from it in the future. Ultimately it will be your choice between Rugby and Boxing, your family should be happy and accept whatever option you choose. Just keep at it and train so when the next opportunity comes, you will be ready.

Jessica, are you a guy or a girl ? I'm guessing boxing and rugby doesn't match your name and profile.Anyway, is missing a tryout in rugby really worth hating yourself over ? Sit down with your family and discuss this issue is my best advice to you.